This has happened recently with one of my friends and I on separate occasions and we had a long discussion about what to do in situations like this. We see a guy on the train, bus, waiting in line and have great eye contact, maybe a quick, cute smile, or even a conversation that you didn't want to end, but he doesn't ask for your number. Then you walk away kicking yourself thinking "Why didn't I just talk to him and/or give him my number?" I most likely won't ever see him again and I just blew my chance to potentially get to know him. I know, I know, if he's actually into you, he will ask for yours, right? But honestly, some guys just don't have the balls to do it. They fear rejection just as much as we do.
So ladies, maybe we have to grow a pair sometimes and just slip them our digits. Write your number down on a slip of paper, walk over to him (if you aren't near him already), shake his hand with that paper and tell him to give you call (maybe even throw in a sexy wink or something too). It's far easier than actually starting a conversation or directly asking someone for their number based on such little contact. It will make you feel liberated. And the guy might actually think it's pretty cool that you did that. That action alone will give you confidence regardless if he contacts you or not. If he doesn't text/call you will run the scenarios in your head: Maybe he had a girlfriend? Maybe I read that situation wrong? Maybe he lost the paper? But then you will just remind yourself, its HIS LOSS and if you had to do it again, you would! On the flip side, if you give him your number unsolicited, not only will be you proud of yourself, and your friends will probably be impressed with your zeal, he might actually contact you. You'll be going about the rest of your day/night and then your phone beeps with a text from an unknown number "Hey, its _________, we met/saw each other today..." And you are elated. If the convo sucks, you have lost nothing but a little time. And if you guys seem to hit it off, maybe you will grab a drink (or more) soon. Regardless of the outcome, you score major cool points for even giving out your number in the first place, and once again, just remember, "You had nothing to lose, and a lot to gain" so don't hesitate to try it again.
As long as you don't slip a business card I support this 100%!!!! Business cards are weird.
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